
Its Not Really All About You
I used to be a bankruptcy law attorney. Most people who file bankruptcy arent doing so because they greedily spent money on luxury items they couldnt afford. Overwhelming medical bills are the number one reason people file for bankruptcy. 66.5 of bankruptcies in the U.S. were due to medical issues. Is it their fault for getting sick and needing expensive treatment? Sometimes. But not always. Many people are predisposed to health problems. They get sick no matter how healthy they eat or how much they work out. People get lung cancer who never smoked a cigarette in their life. Two great athletes died early of heart attacks from congenital conditions. The runner Jim Fixx (51) and the basketball star Pete Maravich (40) didnt even know they were in danger. Support The Stream: Serving the Body During This Crisis With Facts. Faith. And No Fear. Insurance often leaves people with huge debt. You can have great insurance and still get hit with thousands of dollars out of pocket. I have one of the most well-known health insurance plans in the country. But when I needed my gallbladder removed a few years ago (scheduled not emergency room) I was stuck paying many thousands. What about people who are overweight? Isnt that always their fault? No. Many people are obese because of reasons other than overeating. I know plenty of large people who eat better and work out harder than a lot of skinny people yet its still a struggle for them to lose weight. And what about all the people with serious disabilities? Blind paraplegic mentally handicapped etc.? Are you going to tell a blind person they live paycheck to paycheck because they bought a high-definition TV? Bragging and gloating about how well you eat and how much you work out is not going to change the fact that you are one of the lucky ones. Not everyone is predisposed like you to good health. Telling people theyre just lazy and need to be more like you is not going to fix many serious health conditions.Other Reasons People Struggle
Some people are broke because they support an elderly or sick parent or another relative. Some care for handicapped children. This isnt their fault. They should be commended for caring for a loved one and not putting them on the government dole. Then there are all the people who have taken a huge hit because of a significant other. Ever been married to someone who was incapable of holding a job? Who has four kids (but gets no child support or visitation help from their ex)? Who all have significant health problems? It doesnt matter how much you scrimp on buying things. Unless youre wealthy as long as you have someone like that draining you you will never be able to save and you will end up hopelessly in debt.
I know a father who lived paycheck to paycheck due to paying his attorney because his ex kept taking him to court to reduce his visitation and increase his child support.
Try to escape a spouse like that? Not so fast. People like that arent likely to make payments on joint debts after you split up leaving you with all the debt. If you share children and your ex gets primary custody you could get slammed with overwhelming child support. And good luck trying to revise child custody or child support. Its very difficult for a noncustodial parent to get those situations reversed despite spending tens of thousands of dollars on attorneys.
I know a father who lived paycheck to paycheck due to paying his attorney because his ex kept taking him to court to reduce his visitation and increase his child support. He tried to work extra hours to keep up with it all but since he had poor health he was dead in six months. And his case isnt rare. These types of situations affect a lot of parents since almost a quarter of children in the U.S. live with single parents.